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									Cope with Your Emotions with Kindness Community - Intuitive Eating Community				            </title>
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                        <title>This Forum is QUIET!!! But anyway...</title>
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                        <pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2025 21:58:33 +0000</pubDate>
                        <description><![CDATA[I think coping with my emotions, or eating outside of my biological hunger/fullness cues it one of my biggest struggles that I *might* be turning a corner with.  And perhaps the way some peo...]]></description>
                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think coping with my emotions, or eating outside of my biological hunger/fullness cues it one of my biggest struggles that I *might* be turning a corner with.  And perhaps the way some people talk about "unconditional permission to eat" trips me up sometimes.  I've appreciated various videos and descriptions in the book about how IE is not about eating with reckless abandonment or having a free-for-all all the time...much less that I "should" eat something just cause it pops into my head or because I like chocolate (when I know how it might make me feel).  Often I'm actually RELIEVED when I hear that I can still have some structure when I need it and if it will help me with my overall goals.</p>
<p>Last night, I became hungry, as I usually do after a choir rehearsal, and I realized I wanted popcorn! (I hardly ever want popcorn).  Then it clued me in to how IE ideally IS about our biological hunger and fullness cues.  Yes....people have warned against the "hunger/fullness diets."  So then that puts me back into eating whenever and whatever.  </p>
<p>But for me that's not progress.  In order to change habits so that I can yes, feel better in my body and move throughout life (I want to run again, but I'm not doing it at the expense of my knees at my current weight), I DO need to change.  And, in a way, adhering primarily to my hunger/fullness cues...in a way....DOES feel like a diet...only because it's a CHANGE.  I know I can eat what I want...and when my BODY/MIND wants it.  If I went with what just my mind wants all the time, I'd be feeling uncomfortable.  So yeah...sometimes I feel like I need permission from others to EAT or to NOT EAT.  So now, I need permission to NOT EAT if I'm not truly hungry (I'm allowing myself more freedom with the occasional snack that gets offered too).</p>]]></content:encoded>
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